Anxiety is our body’s natural response to stress, and most people will experience it occasionally.1
However, it can start becoming a problem when it begins to affect your day-to-day life. Read on for things you can do to help and reduce feelings of anxiety.
Causes of anxiety
The exact causes of anxiety are still unclear, as there can be many different triggers that contribute to it. Some of these triggers include (but aren't limited to):2
- Past or childhood experiences
- Current life situation
- New and existing physical or mental health problems
- Drugs or medication
Anxiety during lockdown
Anxiety can often arise from unexpected changes to your daily routine. For many, the disruptions of national lockdown have triggered feelings of uncertainty and doubt about the future, which can contribute to anxiety. If you have been worried about your mental health during lockdown, know that you’re not alone.
Even as we approach the end of lockdown in the UK, there are a number of factors that still may be contributing to your anxiety. With restrictions being lifted, the idea of adapting to a new lifestyle after months of being at home might seem tough.
If you are feeling anxious about going to work when lockdown ends, or find that you experience anxiety when going out in public, it may be helpful to understand more about where the feeling comes from and how to manage it.
Fortunately, there are many ways to cope with anxiety. With the right support you can learn to deal with it in a way that works best for you.
Symptoms of anxiety
Anxiety can cause changes in how you’re feeling physically or mentally and also be responsible for any behavioural changes.
It can be challenging to know when anxiety is contributing to how you’re feeling or acting, so keep an eye out for the below signs and symptoms:3
Physical symptoms of anxiety
- Faster breathing that is hard to control
- Increased or irregular heartbeat – this may feel more noticeable than normal
- Headaches and other aches throughout the body
- Sweating and hot flushes
- Nausea and loss of appetite
Mental symptoms of anxiety
- Feeling tense, nervous, and unable to relax
- Increased worry about the past and future but also the inability to stop worrying about everything (e.g. fear that people can see you’re anxious, people are angry at you, the possibility of a panic attack)
- Feeling emotional
- Ruminating on bad experiences
Behavioural changes caused by anxiety
- Problems with your concentration that can affect your work
- Not taking care of yourself
- Inability to form or maintain relationships
- Feeling you can’t enjoy any leisure or downtime
- Worries about trying new things
The importance of acknowledging anxiety
Acknowledging anxiety can help you understand what triggers these feelings and learn which coping mechanisms work for you.
If you’re unsure why you’re experiencing anxiety, keeping a journal and seeking support can help identify the causes.4
Dealing with anxiety
Finding the right support and coping mechanisms can help in dealing with the problem. The following steps are those that might help in managing your anxiety:5
- Talking to someone you trust can help relieve you of any worries, and a listening ear from someone that cares about you can be of comfort. If you’re unable to speak to someone close, there are free helplines available.
- Managing your worries can seem impossible and at times, uncontrollable. Writing down your fears and storing them away can help take them from your mind for a time. If you’re worried about avoiding bad things happening, dedicate a specific time for these worries to reassure yourself you have thought about them once that day.
- Looking after yourself with a good sleep pattern, healthy diet, and regular exercise is known to have a positive effect on both physical and mental wellbeing.
- Breathing exercises, letting your breath flow deep into your belly, can help manage anxiety too. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth, counting to five. Repeat this for up to five minutes.6
- Keeping a diary lets you track how you feel when you get anxious, and you can pick up patterns on what triggers the feeling.
There are also alternative therapies such as meditation and hypnotherapy that can help people relax and let go of their worries. Supplements can also be helpful.
Things to avoid
Avoid setting yourself unachievable targets if you’re suffering from anxiety, as trying to complete everything at once can add to stress and worries.
Focus your time on things that you can change and ignore those that you have no control over.
Resist using alcohol, drugs, or cigarettes as coping mechanisms as these can contribute to poorer mental health in the long run.7
Remember, you’re not alone. Most people experience stress, anxiety, and fear throughout their lives.
- Anxiety can be caused by many things, both past and present
- It can manifest different physical and mental symptoms in different people
- Understanding what triggers it for you is key to managing it
Breathing exercises to relieve anxiety
Breathing is such a natural process that most of the time, we do it without being aware. However, when in times of stress, breathing can become rapid and shallow, adding to feelings of anxiousness.
Taking time to learn about different types of breath and practising simple breathing exercises for anxiety can help you overcome these feelings.
The reciprocal relationship between breathing and anxiety
If you feel stressed or anxious, your body will typically instigate its fight-or-flight response. The brain doesn’t differentiate between physical or emotional threats but reacts in the same way, increasing the breathing and the heart rate to get blood to the muscles faster.8 This increased heart rate is to prepare you to tackle a physical threat or run away from it.
Nowadays, we don’t often experience these sorts of threats. But, when facing modern-day concerns, the brain will still produce this response.
This increase in breathing, or hyperventilation, causes an upset in the balance between our body’s oxygen and carbon dioxide levels. You may begin to feel lightheaded, as this unbalance reduces the blood supply to the brain, and your fingers may start to tingle. Severe hyperventilation can even result in a loss of consciousness.9
This reaction can increase levels of anxiety, exacerbating the situation. However, learning to control your breathing through simple breathing exercises can reduce stress and allow your oxygen and carbon dioxide levels to return to normal.
How to identify the different types of breathing
There are two ways of breathing. These are thoracic breathing (from the chest) and diaphragmatic breathing (from the abdominals).
The rapid, shallow breathing experienced when feeling anxious comes from the chest. This way of breathing can add to feelings of anxiety, as the intakes of breath do not feel satisfying, and can make you feel as though you are suffocating.
The diaphragm is a muscle located at the base of the lungs. When you breathe diaphragmatically, this muscle contracts and moves downwards, providing more space for your lungs to expand. This downwards movement pushes on the stomach muscles and forces the abdominal wall out.10
The benefits of diaphragmatic breathing
Diaphragmatic breathing encourages the optimal exchange of oxygen and carbon dioxide. It slows the heart rate and can lower blood pressure. The knock-on effect is that we feel more relaxed, and anxiety levels drop.11
A simple breathing exercise to alleviate anxiety
Practice this simple breathing exercise to help lower levels of anxiety.12 You can be standing, sitting or lying when completing this exercise. However, focus on relaxing your body and ensure there is no tension through your shoulders.
- Inhale deeply through your nose and focus on this action inflating your abdomen. The rise in your chest should be minimal.
- Exhale slowly and steadily through your mouth, keeping your jaw muscles relaxed. It may help to purse your lips slightly and create a whooshing sound with your exhale.
- Repeat this breathing technique calmly and steadily for a few minutes.
If focusing on your breathing in this way is making you feel more anxious, stop. It can take practice to feel the benefits of this technique, so try to do a little at a time and build up slowly.
Some natural supplements can also be helpful alongside these breathing techniques to relax, reduce feelings of anxiety, and improve your sleeping patterns.
How to sleep better if you have anxiety
Getting enough shut-eye every night is vital for both our physical and mental health. When we sleep, our bodies perform a variety of functions, from repairing damaged cells to strengthening our immune systems.13 Sleep is also crucial for our brain as it’s when it processes all the information we’ve soaked up during the day and consolidates it into long term memories.14
If you don’t get enough sleep every night, you’ll likely feel lethargic the following day, much more irritable and probably have poorer concentration levels. These can all have a big impact on your everyday life and may make any anxiety you’re experiencing seem much worse.
How much sleep do we need?
Experts say that between seven and nine hours of sleep a night is a good figure to aim for.15 Nevertheless, this needs to be good quality sleep to properly nourish our minds and bodies. That means uninterrupted periods of dozing when our bodies are able to complete three to four REM sleep cycles.16
How to sleep with anxiety
If you find yourself regularly lying awake at night with a thousand thoughts running through your head, you might be after some tips on how to relax. Luckily, there are numerous things you can do to help promote sleep when you’re feeling anxious:
Develop a relaxing bedtime routine
It’s important that you wind down properly and avoid stressful situations in those few hours before you go to sleep. Developing a bedtime routine is a great way to do this, whether that’s choosing to read every night before you sleep, doing some gentle yoga or having a warm bath to soothe your muscles. Try to go to bed at the same time every night, too, to help maintain a good sleep routine.17
Make sure your room is cool and comfortable
Studies show that sleeping in a room that’s cooler is actually better for promoting sleep. That’s because our bodies naturally get cooler when we’re asleep as our heart rates drop and our blood circulation slows down.18 Before you go to bed, turn the heating off or down, close all the curtains properly and make sure your bed is as comfortable as possible.
Avoid technology for at least an hour before you go to bed
Technology can have negative effects on us for a number of reasons, particularly when we’re trying to go to bed. That’s largely down to the fact that most electronic devices emit blue light which stimulates the brain, making it much more difficult to switch off for sleep.19 Avoid looking at your phone or tablet for at least an hour before bedtime if you can.
Try meditation or deep breathing exercises
If you’ve tried counting sheep and got nowhere, you might want to switch to a breathing exercise instead. You’ll find numerous apps online, like Calm, which guide you through meditation sequences and deep breathing routines.
Consider natural sleep aids
There are a handful of vitamins, herbal remedies and essential oils out there which may promote sleep.20 These include:
- Magnesium – magnesium is one of the minerals needed by the body to make melatonin, a hormone linked to sleep.
- Valerian – valerian has been used for hundreds of years as a natural sleep aid and is thought to be a beneficial treatment for things such as anxiety and stress. Based on traditional use only.
- Lavender – this fragrant flower has also long been a sleep aid, with some studies showing lavender’s strong scent can make you feel more relaxed after just 30 minutes.
8 essential oils for anxiety you should try
Essential oils have been used for thousands of years by those looking for anxiety relief. They are extremely concentrated fragrant extracts.
For instance, it takes 220 pounds of lavender flowers to make just one pound of lavender essential oil. If you experience anxiety, here are our top picks to try:
Lavender is the most popular of all essential oils. This wonder scent can help ease anxiety and stress, so much so that researchers at the Royal Berkshire Hospital NHS Trust, Reading, used it on patients in the intensive care unit. Several studies have shown that it can be hugely beneficial to patients who are sleep deprived.
Inhaling rose oil promotes calmness and reduces any tension that you may be feeling; it’s often recommended to those who are grieving or depressed.
Popular in India and Sri Lanka, Vetiver essential oil is often referred to as the ‘oil of tranquillity. It has a sweet, smoky scent that’s similar to sandalwood essential oil. It can alleviate emotional stress, anxiety, depression and panic attacks.
Ylang Ylang Oil
This tropical scent is both calming and uplifting. Ylang ylang is one of the best essential oils to use if you want to boost your emotional wellbeing. It can reduce your blood pressure and has mild sedative qualities too.
Frankincense has a rich, warm aroma. It can lift your mood, boost the oxygen supply to your brain and stimulate the limbic system, helping to bring your emotions back into check. Adding to your bath should help relax both your mind and body.
With a sweet scent similar to roses, geranium oil can help you replace negative thoughts with positive ones. Many believe it can help restore hormone imbalance too.
This essential oil has been used for centuries to help reduce anxiety symptoms. Studies have shown that Jasmine can stimulate your brain to improve your mood and energy levels. It can also calm your nervous system.
Try massaging chamomile oil (not directly) onto your skin or inhaling it when you’re feeling anxious or have a headache. It has a slightly herby aroma and you’ll no doubt think of chamomile tea as you breathe it in. Chamomile oil can also be used to treat skin conditions such as eczema.
3 other measures that could help with anxiety
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) – works by encouraging people to think differently about their anxieties. By making your problems more manageable, CBT can help change negative thought patterns and improve the way you feel.21
- Counselling – as we briefly mentioned above, sharing your worries and talking them through with another person can potentially make them feel more manageable and reduce the stress associated with them. Some people choose to do this by speaking to a professional counsellor.
- Identify your anxiety triggers – everybody’s anxiety is caused by different things. If you know what your triggers are, then hopefully you can then minimise or remove them from your routine. Some examples of general triggers include driving/travelling, phobias, caffeine and work-related stress.22
- Learning to control your breathing through simple breathing exercises can reduce stress
- Diaphragmatic breathing slows the heart rate and can lower blood pressure
- Good quality sleep is also key to managing anxiety
- There is a wide range of essential oils that can also reduce levels of anxiety
- Counselling may also help to address your concerns
How to support someone else with anxiety
If you’re keen to support someone close to you with anxiety, it’s understandable to feel a little out of your depth at first. While identifying the cause of someone’s anxiety can go a long way in easing their nerves, there are also various other things you might be able to do to help.
First of all, what typically causes anxiety?
Anxiety is one of the most common mental health issues in the UK and, while it’s particularly prevalent among younger people, it can affect people of all ages and backgrounds.23
It can be caused by a number of things, from stresses within everyday life through to traumatic events or even another health issue.24
Everyone’s experience of and reason for feeling anxious is completely different, which is why it’s important to always be sensitive and supportive.
If you have a friend or family member who you’d like to help get through a tough time, it’s worth discovering some tips on how to do this thoughtfully and effectively.
Four ways to help someone with anxiety:
- Be there for them
When you’re feeling anxious about certain things, it can really put your mind at ease simply knowing that there’s someone close to you who cares.
If a friend or family member is feeling particularly anxious, reach out and tell them you’re always free for a chat. Be patient, too; your friend’s anxiety may seem irrational to you, but to them it’s very serious and you might make them feel worse if you’re insensitive.25
- Think of ways to distract them
While they may find it helpful to talk about the causes of their anxiety, they may also just be in need of a distraction. If that’s the case, think of some nice activities you can do to take their mind off more stressful aspects of their life. Go for a walk together, organise a fun excursion or simply meet them for a coffee at a local café – anything you do together will be appreciated.
- Encourage them to seek professional support
While you don’t want to pressure someone into talking about the cause of their anxiety, it may be necessary for them to seek further advice from a medical professional or to attend a support group.
If this is the case, gently ease them into the idea by being patient and listening to how they’d prefer to handle their anxiety.
Sometimes people who experience anxiety can actually become more stressed if they don’t feel ready or able to tackle what’s triggering it.
That’s why it’s crucial that you do things at their pace and never push them. Simply suggesting an idea – such as finding a support group or considering therapy – can often work wonders as they’ll then know it’s a viable option in the future.26
- Suggest they try a herbal remedy
There are a number of herbal remedies which have been used for centuries to help relax those who suffer from anxiety.
- Valerian root – recognisable for its pink flowers, valerian has been used for hundreds of years as a herbal remedy for nervousness, anxiety and insomnia, based on traditional use only. It’s able to relax the muscles and slow down brain activity so you feel calmer.27
- St John’s Wort – another millennia-old herbal remedy used to relieve symptoms of mild anxiety, based on traditional use only. St John’s Wort is thought to work by reducing the time it takes for the brain to use up serotonin – the body’s ‘happy’ hormone.28
If you’re worried about someone who has anxiety and think they might need professional medical help, try to gently encourage them to speak to their GP or a charity like Anxiety UK, who specialise in supporting those with anxiety.
Last updated: 16 March 2021
Author: Bhupesh Panchal
Joined Holland & Barrett: April 2019
Qualifications: Masters Degree in Toxicology, BSc Hons in Medical Biochemistry
Bhupesh started his career as a clinical toxicologist for Public Health England, advising healthcare professionals all around the country on how to manage clinical cases of adverse exposure to supplements, pharmaceuticals, cosmetics, industrial chemicals and agricultural products. After 7 years in this role and a further year working as a drug safety officer in the pharmaceutical industry, Bhupesh joined Holland & Barrett as a Senior Regulatory Affairs Associate in 2019.
Bhupesh specialises in vitamins & minerals nutrition, health benefits & safety of botanicals and traditional herbal medicines.
In his spare time, Bhupesh likes to cycle and has been learning to speak Korean for several years.
Author: Bhupesh Panchal